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Leader's Guide

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​​STORY-TELLING INFUSED WITH MULTI-MODAL LEARNING
Curriculums in spiritual care groups rely heavily on cognitive verbal reflection, a modality that is normative in the field of pastoral care. Since mental illness, neuro-atypicalness, and medication affect Behavioral Health patients’ cognitive verbal skills, some participants are unable to fully participate in this particular modality. Therefore, the curriculum that I have developed invites spiritual care group facilitators to expand their skillsets beyond the default (“normative”) modality - the use of cognitive verbal reflections. Central to my curriculum is the integration of music (community singing), wisdom stories (story-telling), journaling, art, body movement, and breathing/silence, so that participants have the opportunity to holistically engage and process their spirituality within a neurodiverse context.

Below is a guide for each spiritual care group session that I lead, which is structured around a story. Feel free to use or adapt the guide in your particular context. I utilize Godly Play® (aka Spirit Play) storytelling method to share wisdom stories as a way to invite participants to reflect about their lived experience. Influenced by the Montessori-based approach to learning, Jerome Berryman (the founder of the Godly Play® storytelling modality) valued the participants' capacity to articulate their inner wisdom and insight into the story. As opposed to pouring in knowledge (the "banking concept of education" per Paulo Freire), the pedagogical approach in Godly Play® is to draw out the inner wisdom and insight that is already in each participant. The Godly Play® storyteller's role is to support the participant's work of articulating insights and making connections - the mirroring of one's inner life into the story. The story box (which contains materials and representations) enables the listener to connect with the story in a tangible way. To see trained storytellers do the Godly Play® methodology of storytelling, go to the Godly Play® youtube website.

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THE POWER OF WISDOM STORIES
When life throws a struggle or crisis in our life path (which in spiritual terms one might call "a storm to weather through", "a desert to traverse," a darkness to wait in"), most of the time we are like deer caught in a headlight, feeling shock and numb, feeling overwhelmed, disempowered and helpless. Giving the struggling person the opportunity to creatively name their crisis, puts the power back to the person experiencing the rough terrain.  Instead of keeping the experience nameless, one is able to name that experience. Thus, mythologies with spiritual themes are fabulous tools to reflect about our inner lives and struggles. The wisdom stories that I have compiled are stories about transformation: the human journey from darkness to light, from death to resurrection, from being lost to being found, from disorientation to some clarity, from chaos to stillness, from despair to hope, from emptiness to meaning & purpose, from dis-ease towards healing. It gives the person feeling lost and disoriented to map themselves in the endless cycle of ups and downs of life. It gives the person in crisis the mental and emotional space to see the bigger picture, a lens with a much wider perspective, instead of a very narrow, reactive and blind-spot-laden lens to view one's experience. ​To see the archetypal themes and patterns that I have utilized in my support groups, feel free to check this blog. In the world of counseling and psychotherapy, therapists use parallel therapeutic tools, such as
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  • bibliotherapy
  • poetry therapy
  • story therapy
  • narrative therapy
  • articles on Joseph Campbell's work on mythology:
    1. Monomyth
    2. mythology in psychotherapy 
    3. Joseph Campbell in modern psychology​
​If you are curious about what science has to say about storytelling, here are some articles on the topic:
  • The Science Behind The Art Of Storytelling
  • What Anansi Did for Us: Storytelling’s Value in Equitably Exploring Public Health
  • How Stories Connect & Persuade Us: Unleashing the Brain Power of Narrative
  • The Science of Storytelling: What Listening to a Story Does to Our Brains
  • Narrative Medicine & Rita Charon
  • Your Aesthetic Brain: A Growing Case for the Arts
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GODLY PLAY MATERIALS
When leading spiritual care groups in BH, Presbyterian Hospital chaplains may use the Godly Play materials in my office. If you are not from Presbyterian Hospital, you may purchase Godly Play materials (Parable of the Leaven, the Great Pearl, the Good Samaritan, the Good Shepherd, the Sower, the Mustard Seed, the Deep Well) from the Godly Play website. For the rest of the other stories listed below (under "List of Wisdom Stories"), I recommend you create your own Godly/Spirit Play materials (these stories include: Brother Bear, Warrior & the Monk, The Fish Searching the Ocean, Punchinello, The Cracked Jar, Calming the Stormy Sea, Rowing into the Stormy Sea, the Butter & the Milk, the Dragon & the Healer, and others).


session structure
story list
ARCHETYPAL themes
tips - embracing neurodiversity
wisdom story blog
learning modules
EXPERIENCE NOT OPINIONS
MUSIC
This link above will give you more information on how I frame music & singing as a learning modality in spiritual care support group facilitation. It also has links to articles on the scientific research on the relationship of music and mental health.

Tools for Facilitators (PDF & Video Resources) 
Spiritual Care facilitators in whatever context are welcome to use the resource materials attached here (in PDF). This page is a work in progress, and I am slowly posting videos of me telling the story (specifically, non-parable ones) to model for facilitators how I tell the story using Godly Play / Spirit Play method. 
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  • Mindful Breathing Exercises: When appropriate I integrate a brief breathing exercise (3 min) in the beginning of the session, some of which I lead myself; sometimes I use a projector and play the video on a screen, and l invite the participants to follow the instructor in the video.
  • Possible prompts for introductions & check-in: (a) Heart Weather, (b) Rock & Water - aka highs & lows, (c) Holy Listening Stones, (d) Avatar the Last Airbender, + Elements Circle  (e) The 4 Seasons - Quadratos, (f) Growth of Seeds - Quadratos, (g) Slide Pic for the Elements; Breathing Guide; (h) Wonderings; (i) Seed Growth Circle; (j) Blackfoot wisdom​
  • Script for Introducing the Wisdom Story: Please adapt the script for your particular context.
  • Spiritual Care Plan (*vertical): This handy worksheet helps participants to narrow down actions that they can commit to that will help them in their journey towards healing. This reflection sheet will go well with most of the stories listed (seeds, leaven, great pearl, butter in milk, mustard seed, labyrinth, deep well, etc).
  • Closing ritual with candle​
  • Potential nature backgrounds: Mountain River#1, Mountain River#2, Waterfall#1, Waterfall#2, Mountain Stream, Mount Rainier, Mount St Helens#1, Mount St Helens#2,  Mountain Lake, Tropical Beach; Fire in the Canyon; Flowery Meadow; Meadow; Bright Green Meadow; Stream; Hawaaian Beach; Creek with flowers 
  • Songs
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Old Resource List 
(***NOTE: The links below were from the first two years of my work. Please go to the Wisdom Story Page for the most updated resources.) 

WEEK 1: Our Search for Healing
1. 
Brother Bear (Alaskan-Russian) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Obstacles;  Reflection1-Beaver; Reflection2-Bear; Reflection3-Moose​; Reflection2; Examples
2. The Warrior and the Monk (East Asian; Buddhist) Materials; VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Reflection, Reflection - Anger Volcano, Warrior-Monk Art, Examples

WEEK 2: Our Search for Meaning
3. 
The Fish Searching for the Ocean (South/Central Asia) Materials; VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Awareness Test; Reflection#1; Reflection#2; ​Reflection#3; Examples​
​4. The Parable of the Great Pearl / GP Guide (Middle East; Christian) VIDEO; Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Art Reflection; Art Example; Background1, Background2

​WEEK 3: Our Spiritual Guides
5. Punchinello (North American) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Reflection; Art Example; Music "You Say"; Music "True Colors"
​​6. Parable of the Good Shepherd / GP Guide (Middle East; Christian) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Places of Danger;  Art#1, Reflection; Examples

WEEK 4: Our Companion Towards Peace & Healing
7. Peace Be Still - Calming the Stormy Sea  (Middle East; Christian) VIDEO; Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Our Storms; Art#1, Art#2, Reflection, Drawing Prompt, Drawing Example; Live Background
8. Parable of the Good Samaritan / GP Guide (Middle East; Christian) VIDEO; Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Reflection; Examples; Music Fred Rogers

​WEEK 5: On Transformation & Change
9. The Butter & The Milk (South Asian; Hindu) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participants Guide; Events that Churn Us;  Reflection, Worksheet, Drawing Example
10. The Dragon & The Healer (An Integration of Various Mythologies) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Our Dark Caves; Reflection1, Reflection2, Reflection3; Drawing Example; Misty Mountains Cold


WEEK 6: On Growing & Healing
11. The Parable of the Sower / GP Guide (Middle East; Christian) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; 4 Seasons Seeds, Obstacles of the Seeds; Reflection1, Reflection2, Reflection3​, Seed Drawing Example for Art#1, Collaborative Art, 
​12. The Cracked Jar (South Asian; Hindu) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Events that Crack Us;  Art, Reflection, Art - the Owner's Card, Examples; Collaborative Art

WEEK 7: The Tree of Life & the Bread of Life
13. The Parable of the Mustard Seed / GP Guide; Script only (Middle East; Christian) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Dark Ground; Art#1, Art#2, Reflection, Examples; Collaborative Art
14. The Parable of the Leaven / GP Guide; Script only(Middle East; Christian) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Funk of the Leaven; Reflection1, Reflection2, Examples Leaven/Fire + Art, Song#1-For Good, Song#2-I Am Already Enough, Song#3-Carry You

WEEK 8: Our To-Do's When We Are Disoriented
15. 
The Labyrinth (North American) VIDEO; Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Quadratos & Tools; Our Twists & Turns; Art#1, Art#2, Reflection, Examples, Labyrinth Short Doc, Video from Film The Labyrinth; Labyrinth Locator
16. The Sea of Life (Pacific Islander) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Our Storms; Art#1, Art#2, Reflection, Drawing Prompt, Drawing Example; Live Background
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WEEK 9: Sacred Drink to Quench Our Thirst
17. The Parable of the Deep Well / GP Guide (Rabbinical Parable) VIDEO#1; VIDEO#2; VIDEO#3; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Our Desert; Awareness Test; Reflection#1; Reflection#2; Drawing Example; Live Background
18. The Master and a Cup of Tea (East Asian; Buddhist) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Art, Reflection, Art Examples; Music "Free Mind"; Discussion Slides

WEEK 10: On Traps & Cages 
19. The Bird in a Golden Cage (South Asian) Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Events that Trap Us in Our Cage; Reflection, Art Template; Examples, Caged Bird by Maya Angelou, Music "Soulbird Rise"; Music "As You Fly"; Music "Free Mind";
20. The River of Life (North American) VIDEO; Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Reflection1; Reflection2;  Art Example, Live Background; 
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WEEK 11: Crossing Obstacles 
21. The Stream & the Desert (a Sufi story) Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Reflection1; Reflection2; Reflection3; Examples; Live Background
​22. The Parable of the Raft (Buddhist) VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Worksheet; Live Background#1, Live Background #2

WEEK 12: Flowing with Our Feelings
23. The Wisdom of the Four Seasons (inspired by Alexander Shaia's Quadratos) Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide: Winter, Spring, Summer, Fall, Opening Songs; Worksheet, Four Seasons Art Template; Art Examples; VIDEO of Breathing Meditation
24. This Being Human Is a Guesthouse (Sufi) - Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Music "Meant to Be"; Check-In; Giving It a Name; Empathy Video; Reflection1; Reflection2; Self Check In; Examples; Background1; Background2

WEEK 13: Growth & Healing Arising from Our Struggles
25. The Bamboo Tree (Chinese) - Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; The Dark; Reflection#1, Reflection#2; Examples; Live Background
26. Kintsugi (Japanese) - Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Life events that break us; Reflection Sheet & Examples
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WEEK 14: Non-Attachment & Courage
27. Maybe - (2 Stories) (East Asian) - *Guide sheets still in process of development
28. Facing Fear (Buddhist; Pema Chodron) - Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; NVC; Video; Reflection#1-Breathe&Collumn, Reflection#2-Coping+CarePlan, Reflection#3-Ladder; Examples 

WEEK 15: Growth/Wisdom That Comes with Time
29. Time and Love (South Asian) - Reflection;
30. The Reluctant Oak Tree (South Asian/North American) - Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Reflection1; Reflection2; Tree Options; Examples; Background1; Background2;

WEEK 16: Our Light / Our Purpose
31. The Fearful Candle - Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; The Dark; Reflection#1; Reflection#2; Examples; Light to Receive
32. The Four Candles - Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; The Dark; Reflection#1; Reflection#2; Examples; Light to Receive

WEEK 16: Sacred Guides
33. The Butterfly & the Cocoon, Materials - Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Reflection Sheet; Examples, Butterfly Background
34. The Still Small Voice​ - *Guide sheets still in process of development

WEEK 17: The Apprentice & the Wise One(s)
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35. The Four Elements: Air, Water, Earth & Fire -  Leader's Guide, ADULT Participants Guide ; KIDS Participants Guide; Intro Clip Avatar; Iroh Breathing Meditation (0.5 speed); Four Elements Illustration; Reflection; Discuss Guide & Examples; Staff Slides + Script; PDF Reflection for Staff
36. ​The Carrot, the Egg and the Coffee Bean - Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Reflection Sheet 1; Reflection Sheet 2; Examples, Background1; Background2

WEEK 18: On the Flow of Grief
37. The Bottle (inspired by the film Song of the Sea); VIDEO; Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide; Reflection1; Reflection2; Examples
38. The Dam (inspired by the film Frozen 2); VIDEO; Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Reflection1; Reflection2; Examples

39. The Four Directions - Leader's Guide, Participant's Guide, Reflection Prompt; Examples
40. The Train of Life - Leader's Guide; Participant's Guide; Reflection1; Reflection2; Examples

41. The Legend of the Two Wolves: #1, #2

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