Prepare Enrich
Couples Course Curriculum
Our Couples Class is based on the Prepare-Enrich program. Prior to the first session, each couple completes an extensive online relationship inventory. The cost for completing the required online inventory is $35 per couple. The personalized results of your inventory provide the basis for discussion with your partner in each session. While the main skeleton of the course is based on Prepare-Enrich, I integrate a lot of information about recent studies on the human brain and how they affect conflict in relationships. This includes recent research on "attachment theory." I also focus on the practice of mindfulness and Marshall Rosenberg's NonViolent Communication as tools to de-escalate conflict.
Sessions
(Identifying Strength & Growth Areas (Session 1 Google Slides)
Personality Profiles (Session 2 Google Slides) The SCOPE personality profile (which everyone in the Couples Group completed in the initial PREPARE/ENRICH inventory) is one of many tools that can help you better understand yourself and your partner. When we understand ourselves in terms that are descriptive, rather than judgmental, we are in a better position to grow as individuals and to recognize the strengths that our differences can bring to our relationships. In addition to the SCOPE personality profile, you and your partner might wish to explore:
Communication (Session 3 Google Slides)
Personal Stress Profile + Nonviolent Communication (Session 4 Google Slides)
Conflict Resolution + 10 Steps (Session 5 Google Slides)
Emotional Self-Regulation & Mindfulness (Session 6 Google Slides)
Attachment Theory: Disconnected to Secure Relationships (Session 7 Google Slides)
Family Maps- Closeness & Flexibility (Session 8 Google Slides)
Financial Management (Session 9 Google Slides)
Sexuality, Desire, Intimacy (Session 10 Google Slides)
Children/Parenting
Final Wrap Up: Spiritual Beliefs & Couple Goals
- Group Process "Ground Rules"
- Exercise: Sharing Strength & Growth Areas
- Love Map Questionnaire for Couples
- 201 Questions for Trust & Intimacy (pdf) OR click here for Google docs version
Personality Profiles (Session 2 Google Slides) The SCOPE personality profile (which everyone in the Couples Group completed in the initial PREPARE/ENRICH inventory) is one of many tools that can help you better understand yourself and your partner. When we understand ourselves in terms that are descriptive, rather than judgmental, we are in a better position to grow as individuals and to recognize the strengths that our differences can bring to our relationships. In addition to the SCOPE personality profile, you and your partner might wish to explore:
- The Enneagram (full online inventory, $10 per person)
- The Meyers-Briggs Personality Type Inventory (full online inventory, $50 per person)
- 5 Love Languages Personal Profile Online
Communication (Session 3 Google Slides)
- Handout: Communication - Assertiveness & Active Listening
- Exercise: Communication-Creating a Wish List
- Exercise: Communication--Daily Dialogue & Compliments
Personal Stress Profile + Nonviolent Communication (Session 4 Google Slides)
- Exercise: Stress-Identifying Critical Issues
- NVC Flow Worksheet
- Card Tools: Feelings & Needs (OR Feelings Inventory and Needs Inventory)
- Essay Explaining NVC (by Marshall Rosenberg)
- Slides: NVC (Nonviolent Communication) Flow Chart
Conflict Resolution + 10 Steps (Session 5 Google Slides)
- Exercise: Ten Steps for Resolving Conflict
- Exercise: Stress--Balancing Your Priorities
- Positive Discipline's Family Meetings
Emotional Self-Regulation & Mindfulness (Session 6 Google Slides)
Attachment Theory: Disconnected to Secure Relationships (Session 7 Google Slides)
Family Maps- Closeness & Flexibility (Session 8 Google Slides)
- Exercise : Mapping your Relationship
- Exercise: Couple & Family Maps--Closeness Exercises
- Exercise: Couple & Family Maps--Flexibility Exercises
Financial Management (Session 9 Google Slides)
- Handout: The Challenges of Money
- Exercise: The Meaning of Money
- Exercise: Importance of Financial Goals
- See Section 18 Money in "201 Questions" (pdf) - located under Session 1
- Journal for 201 Questions (pdf, 300 pages)
- Exercise: Budget Worksheet
- Book: Free: Spending Your Time and Money on What Matters Most
Sexuality, Desire, Intimacy (Session 10 Google Slides)
- Exercise: The Expression of Intimacy
- Couple Discussion on Sex & Affection
- Check out one or more of the Gottman Institute Love Apps for iPhone
Children/Parenting
- See Section 17 (Children & Parenting) of 201 Questions
- Positive Discipline's Family Meetings
Final Wrap Up: Spiritual Beliefs & Couple Goals