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The Lotus in the Mud

INTRODUCTION

Mud can be nasty. But for many plants, like the lotus, dealing with the mud is part of living - that there's no way around it. The muddy sludge is equivalent to the kitchen scraps, leftover food, or other organic waste in the compost bin. This is where decomposition takes place. While undeniably funky and unpleasant, this process of microbial metabolism breaks down organic materials into a stable nutrient-rich soil that serves as a vital source of nourishment and growth.

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The Lotus in the Mud
(Unknown author - story inspired by the Aggi-Vacchagotta Sutta, and wisdom by Thich Nhat Hanh)

A young monk once asked his teacher: “How do I remain pure when I am surrounded by negativity, anger, and ignorance?”

The teacher led him to a quiet pond. The water was dark, heavy with mud. From that mud rose a single lotus—clean, untouched, radiant. The wise sage was silent at first.

Then he asked gently, “Does the lotus fight the mud?”

The young monk looked closely: “No.”

“Does the lotus complain about the water that feeds it?”

“No.”

“Does it waste energy trying to change what surrounds it?”

Again, the student said, “No.”

The teacher smiled & said: “The lotus understands something most humans forget - It does not rise despite the mud—it rises because of it. The mud is not the enemy. Our resistance to the mud is the enemy. The lotus does not argue with darkness. It simply grows toward the light. It does not absorb the dirt. It transforms it. In this path, there is no need to escape the world. We face the world." 

The young apprentice said: "But how can I learn to not let it live inside me, or consume me, especially when people gossip, when situations are unfair, when things irritate & upset?" 

The teacher concludes: “Whether you like it or not, life will place you in muddy waters again and again and again. So you have two choices: Sink into it, OR grow through it. Remember, the lotus does not ask, ‘Why is the pond so dirty? Instead it asks, ‘How high can I rise?’ So be like the lotus. Focus on your practice, your integrity, your inner clarity. Let your peace be so strong that the mud cannot touch it. Rise quietly. Bloom unhindered. Bloom without permission.”


REFLECTION QUESTIONS
  • What did you find to be the most important part of the story? What resonated with you?
  • What experiences have you had that is close to this story?
  • Where do you find yourself in this story? Which part of the story is about you?​

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We Rise (Lyrics/Chords)
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​Donnel Miller-Mutia
- chaplain, grief support specialist, relationship educator, artist
- shares arts and skills to aid your growth in the fullness of life. 

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      • Carrot Egg Coffee
      • Four Candles
      • Bottle
      • Time and Love
      • Maybe
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      • Tigers
      • World Mirrors the Heart
      • Prodigal Son
      • Prism & Rainbows
      • The Lotus
    • Leaven
    • Samurai & Monk
    • Fish Searching the Ocean
    • Great Pearl
    • Labyrinth
    • The Woodcarver
    • Good Shepherd
    • Peace in Stormy Sea
    • Milk to Butter
    • Dragon
    • Sower
    • Cracked Jar
    • Mustard Seed
    • The Well
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    • Golden Cage
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